Empathy: a basic element of human decency

by Jim Hodgson

Back in the late 1990s, I travelled frequently by bus over the mountains between my home in Cuernavaca and my job in Mexico City. Even when the traffic was bad, the trip usually took less than two hours. The bus company almost always showed a film.

When not working or looking at the views, including the Popocatepetl volcano, I watched the movies. I can’t guess how many movies I saw without ever seeing how they ended. My friends and I joked about organizing a Pullman de Morelos film festival, renting or borrowing some of the movies, and just watching the last half hour of all of them to see how they ended.

Among those movies was a favourite of mine, Smilla’s Sense of Snow (Bille August, 1997). The shocking death of a small boy in Copenhagen opened a tale of conflict between corporate greed and the Inuit people of Greenland. But I never saw how it ended. 

Years went by and then, in a used bookstore in Strathroy, Ontario, I found the novel by Peter Høeg on which the film was based. It’s an excellent book with a satisfying ending. 

Among parts that have stayed with me was this:

“…[W]e read Karl Marx’s Das Kapital. It was a book I grew quite fond of. For its trembling, feminine empathy and its potent indignation. I know of no other book with such a strong belief in how much you can accomplish if you simply have the will to change.” *

Hmm. Empathy as a feminine virtue? Let’s see. Google offers this definition: “the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.” 

To me, it’s a basic element of human decency. A measure of empathy is vital in action to transform the plight of those made miserable by any who abuse their power. To empathize doesn’t mean you have to agree with someone: just recognise their different circumstances. Maybe some of us would rather say solidarity.

“In a time when empathy is increasingly treated as a vice, we must not turn our backs on the world’s most impoverished,” wrote Andy Harrington after a recent visit to South Sudan. Harrington is the executive director of the Canadian Foodgrains Bank (CFGB), a Winnipeg-based NGO that enables food aid to reach people in need and communities to move toward food sovereignty. He said people are already dying because of Trump’s cuts to USAID, adding that Canadian support is more essential than ever. (Eight people in South Sudan, including five children, died as they tried to walk for three hours to seek treatment for cholera after U.S. cuts forced local health services to close, Save the Children said April 9.)

Elon Musk said recently that empathy is killing Western civilization. But it seems the far-right has been attacking empathy for a long time now. And it does so with some masculine archetypes.

MAGA influencers have begun to talk of the tariffs as a way to make the United States ‘manly’ again, by bringing old-time manufacturing and mining back,” asserts historian Heather Cox Richardson in her Substack post on April 8. In these first three months of the disastrous Trump regime in the United States, she has found her way into my daily reading as she sets current events in historical context. She adds: 

In a larger sense, Trump’s undermining of the global economy reflects forty years of Republican emphasis on the myth that a true American man is an individual who operates outside the community, needs nothing from the government, and asserts his will by dominating others.

Associated with the American cowboy, that myth became central to the culture of Reagan’s America as a way for Republican politicians to convince voters to support the destruction of federal government programs that benefited them. Over time, those embracing that individualist vision came to dismiss all government policies that promoted social cooperation, whether at home or abroad, replacing that cooperation with the idea that strong men should dominate society, ordering it as they thought best.

The Trump administration has taken that idea to an extreme, gutting the U.S. government and centering power in the president, while also pulling the U.S. out of the web of international organizations that have stabilized the globe since World War II. …

Now Trump is demonstrating his power over the global economy, rejecting the conviction of past American leaders that true power and prosperity rest in cooperation.

In less than 100 days, the Trump regime has dismantled that “liberal consensus” that at least regulated corporate excess, provided very basic social welfare, and promoted infrastructure. (This is not to ignore some of the United States’ greatest failures. Among them: slavery and Indigenous genocide, of course. But also not providing universal health care and maintaining racial segregated schools by underfunding the public education systems.)

* Peter Høeg, Smilla’s Sense of Snow, Toronto: McClelland-Bantam, 1997, pp.144-45.

Tomorrow: Karl Marx in the Rose Garden

2 thoughts on “Empathy: a basic element of human decency

  1. Thank you for the insightful article on empathy as a fundamental aspect of human decency. I particularly appreciated your emphasis on empathy’s role in fostering connection and understanding among individuals from diverse backgrounds. It is indeed essential in bridging communication gaps in today’s increasingly polarized world. In addition to the points you raised, it’s worth noting that empathy can also play a significant role in conflict resolution. For instance, in mediating disputes, empathizing with each party’s perspective can lead to more sustainable solutions. Research shows that engaging in active listening and validating emotions can de-escalate tensions and encourage collaborative problem-solving. This approach has been successfully employed in various settings, from community disputes to international negotiations. Moreover, considering the impact of digital communication on empathy is crucial. While online interactions can create distance, virtual empathy initiatives have emerged that leverage technology to foster understanding and compassion. For example, virtual reality experiences have been used to help individuals step into the shoes of others, effectively cultivating empathy in a way that aligns with modern social dynamics. What are your thoughts on the challenges of practicing empathy in a digital landscape, and how can we effectively encourage its development in online interactions?

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    • Thank you for your comment — and for your question! The quasi-anonymity or impersonal ways we interact on social media definitely challenge the practice of empathy. I know I am sometimes too brief or rude in responses to a comment that seems uncaring or even hateful. I try to do better. With people whom I know I can find other ways of communicating. It’s the others, folks we don’t know, where we are more careless. Even while challenging someone’s opinion, we shouldn’t be rude. By all means: challenge racism, sexism, homophobia, people who are pro-war — but it’s useful to take a moment to think about where they’re coming from. What can’t I see? (And you still might have to block further communication.) How can an individual practice be more common? I think you might be a good model! Best wishes!

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